About marriage
Srirasthu Subhamastu Sreekaram Chuttukundi Pelli Pustakam Ika aakaram dalchutundi kotta jeevitham


Marriage is a wonderful system where in two families, two cultures meet and grow and grow. Its starts with finding the right person and being the right person. Its a strong bonding of compatibility and understanding. The success depends when the wavelength of the boy and girl ( also the families ) matches and its total commitment, love, sharing ,caring, concern and togetherness. Marriage is a course of forgiving, it is FOR GIVING... a feeling like what best I can give for my better half. There is every thrill and excitement in each moment of life. Life it self is a great opportunity of Love and after marriage it spreads across the garden of the rest of life. Its unconditional love the way it is and not the way one feel like it has to be.

-- The above paragraph is written by a girl

-- Based on the girl's paragraphs and views I express/share my thoughts below.

I will say in very simple words which came in a recent hindi film.

Marriage is about love,
Marriage is about compromise,
Marriage is about togetherness,
Marriage is about trust,
Marriage is about sharing,
Marriage is about acceptance,
But Marriages are full of surprises.

When I sent all these lines to one of my friends he said the below one

And above all Marriage is about Sacrifice.

When I had a discussion on this marriage topic with some of our family members most of them talked about sacrifice only as the key point.

One of the interesting inputs I had in that discussion in their exact words.

"aa sacrifies lo kooda chala aanandam vuntundi,nuvuu nee wife ni antaga love cheste.appudu aa ammai kooda neekosam eemaina cheyyadaniki istapadutundi.alage nuvvu kooda.

generalga adavalle ekkuva tyagam chestaru.magavallanundi anta ekkuva kanipinchadu.Kaani vallu kudaa konni sacrifice chestaru.Iddaru okalage aalochiste adi sacrifies chesamani badha padamu.ananda padatam.appude life chala baguntundi."

-- Above comment is as told by one of my aunts

Here are my clear views/expectations on my best half( Mostly people call as better half or life partner).

Simple gaa cheppali ante... Naaku kastapade pellam kavali kaani... kastapette pellam vaddu... Ala unte nenu naa maximum help extend cheyyataniki istapadataanu.. I will see her like a queen then.. believe me in this.

As I am looking for a girl who is working, I would like a woman to be well educated and to be indepedant in nature that doesn't mean that she will do everything on her own without sharing the views or discussion with partner, but on consultation with him only in every matter, even it is silly some times... i expect this will be same for the boy also. I believe if she is well educated and working she can be a very good home maker also. I also feel that she should give more preference to make her own home, her own new world with her husband and children, rather than thinking of her home( i.e., her parents, brothers & sisters). Here I am not saying dont think about them , but I am saying give second prefernece to them and once first is your own family. Hope you got it clearly. I will not get angry often. I usually be very jovial , cool and relaxed. I will enjoy the moment to the fullest and I will enjoy it in the most simple and the best way possible. I love to go to films and listen to music loudly. I love discos too. I am also very concerned about financial needs, I wish the girl should also know the value of money and also the value of life very well as it is very short. Whether to pool her salary or not to spend togetherly is left to the will and wish of the girl herself. As far as I am concerned I feel its better to pool both the salaries when they are working and spend together in wise manner. So that savings will be more.

Last one but not the least as it is the first factor which impresses others, infact the boy himself. I expect the girl to be more beautiful than me, atleast equally beautiful. Hope this is a valid point. As much is not known about her inner mind and soul.

-- Based on the girl's paragraphs and views I express/share my thoughts above.

I know we must aim big, have high aspirations etc., but what is the limitation......what ever I do whether in making a home, taking care of family or any thing, I need to be unique and a special one, One would love to be with, to be associated with. I leave a mark of maximum potential. I am confident of achieving and acquiring the maximum a life can give. Give joy and love and live in it.

-- The above paragraph is written by a girl